Anyone who gives to others is conscious of the future because he would find help if he ever falls on hard times. Never come around people just because of what you can get but come around people because of what you can give, for the Bible says it is more blessed to give than to receive (Acts 20:35). There must be mutual giving, understanding and love. This is the kind of relationship approved of God. By giving, we mean making selfless sacrifice, not giving only those things we do not really need, but what our life depends on too , what we cherish also . Each party involve should be ready to make some sacrifice in order to keep their relationship going. If you want to keep a relationship, you would not visit your friends, your partners only at your spare time – the time you do not have any serious matter at hand.
The primary reason in asking for God’s blessings should be to share them with others. When your needs are met, you have an abundance to share with those around you. Everything you have as a Christian came from God. Everything you will receive in your future will come from God. When you give for God’s sake, you are planting seeds that would be multiplied back unto you.